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'Audrey & Wolfgang'

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Aug 8, 2012


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Thank you Audrey
by: Dayle

I wanted to thank you for your kindness in trying to help me. I am definitely going to look into the group you told me about. There doesn't seem to be help for losing our pets...which is so wrong...because losing Oliver was the worst pain I've ever dealt with. I've been through so much...and lost many loved ones. But losing Ollie...has been unbearable. Maybe because they can't talk...to let us know what they are feeling. Plus...I feel that somehow..I should have known sooner...and if I'd done things differently...would he still be here with me? I will never know. I'm so terribly sorry for your loss of Wolfie...I know your pain...and would not wish that on anyone. It is a terrible pain. I truly DO know in my heart...that at the time...we did everything we thought was the right thing to do. When they are so sick..we ourselves just aren't thinking clearly at times. When it is over...we re-think everything...and what we think we could have done differently. I know...I need to listen to my own words. I have always been hard on myself though. Probably because if the way I was raised. We weren't allowed to ever make a mistake. But I look at others differently...than I look at myself. I read your entry on Wolfie...and you can tell you love him with all of your heart. You did what you did so he wouldn't suffer needlessly...waiting for you. I can understand that...but you...like me...are beating yourself up. I truly don't really know why we tend to do that to ourselves Audrey. You did only what you believed was best at that time. If you had done it differently...you'd have beat yourself up because you made him suffer waiting for you. No matter what we do Audrey...it wouldn't be right. Because we just weren't ready to let them go. And we'd never be ready enough to do that. We want them to live forever...but we know it isn't possible. I hope both of us...along with everyone else here...who has lost their beloved friends...can find peace in knowing we did our best for them. Thank you again Audrey...for your letter...sincerely, Dayle

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