I got my t-shirts with pics of my Venus. It is comforting for me to wear them -- her pic is over my heart which is where she is now. I wear the shirt(s) often (which is why I bought 3). I want to get a button made with her pic so I can wear it everyday.
My grief & sorrow ebbs and flows now. I can get thru some days without crying but other days I have multiple crying spells. I miss her SO much that I can hardly stand it. I guess I am coping adequately with her death.